'My mother taught me that Hutus are animals and criminals and that it was better for me not to approach them. A negative experience in secondary school reinforced my belief that what my mom told me was true. After attending trustbuilding workshops and the Circle of Peace, I learned that Hutus are not bad people. They also suffered, as I did. They lost relatives, as did we. Now, I feel the need to forgive the students who chased me away from school when I was young. Furthermore, I want to create relationships with Hutus to break the cycle of hatred and what our parents told us.'
~ Participant
'I came out of the workshop with the understanding that I must overcome the feeling of being a victim. I will have to learn more about the aggressor's point of view because they also suffered. I realised that I must forgive and take the first step to meet the aggressor, which I did. At my university, I met a boy whose father harmed my family. It took some effort, but when he stopped to talk to me, I told him that I had forgiven his parents for what they did to my family. I told him that I would like to renew our relationship. He agreed, and now we are good friends, thanks to the trustbuilding project.'
~ Participant